Years ago, two psychiatrists, Dr. Thomas Holmes, and Dr. Richard Rahe came up with a stress scale based on their evaluation of 43 different life events. They determined that the death of a spouse was the most stressful life event and second was divorce.
When you first enter your attorney’s office to begin the divorce process, you are more-or-less in shock. You are in a situation you never expected to be in. Divorce was not on your mind when you got married no matter how many years ago that was. Your emotions are high and it’s hard to think clearly and rationally.
You are experiencing the loss of your marriage and will go through the grieving process, the same as people do with any loss. There are stages of grief you have to go through like you have to go through for every loss. A support system is almost mandatory.
The main thing that will help you through this difficult time is a support system. This can be:
Divorce is clearly a stressful time. Having a good support system will help you to get through it. Your world is changing but it is not the end of the world and there will be brighter days ahead.
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